I personally love New Years because it gives that illusion that we have a clean slate. I personally love any shot at being able to start things anew. But I’ve also learned to adapt that mind into every day. For instance, every new day is a chance at something new, why use New Years as a motivation (just like EVERYONE else). But why not, right? I honestly don’t care if people hate that whole “new year, new me” stuff. Who the hell are they to judge anyway?
Anyway, I’m a list hoarder. I have so many lists from taking notes from random articles but one that struck me as something I should do was 20 Things You Should Do In Your 20s.
20 Things You Should Do In Your 20s:
- Learn how to dance (I kinda took one lesson in tango but I think I’ll actually pursue it more consistently.)
- Attend a popular event (did that already with Warped)
- Do something crazy (Does trapeezing count? I think so)
- Go on a road trip
- Travel the world
- Volunteer (I did in the past but I need to get back on it. Namely volunteering at animal shelters hopefully!)
- Train for a marathon
- Join a team
- Find your own home (Don’t know how but I’ll figure it out.)
- Really connect with your family
- Write a letter to yourself
- Learn a new language
- Determine life goals (Working on it!)
- Determine your passion
- Get rid of debt
- Spend time with friends
- Point your finger on a map & go there (yet again same as traveling the world I think.)
- Travel alone
- Go offline for a week (This is what I’m partaking in right now by posting all my articles ahead of time.)
- Dedicate one full day to doing nice things for people.
While there’s that list there of things you should do in your 20s, I think my main goal for this year is be consistent with my work. Mark Manson in his book “The Art of Not Giving a F*ck” wrote about the Do Something Principle: Action, Inspiration, Motivation. More often than not, we have to feel inspired, then we get motivated to pursue our actions. Which in reality, is all mood based and won’t help us get *much* done. However, if we adapt the Do Something Principle, although we may not be in the mood of doing whatever work, we will more often than not find inspiration from just doing.
(More in depth about the Do Something Principle)
So my resolution is:
To live a more fulfilling life by instead of overthinking, it’s just to do something and work towards achieving my goals. To accept the fact that NOTHING is CERTAIN and that uncertainty is a part of life that helps us grow and move forward.
On a side note: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is one of the MOST important books I’ve come across. I will shamelessly promote that book since it’s helped me SO much. Also check out his site: MarkManson.net. I love his work that much. Anyway more on his book in my next post because I really want to put up a review of his book and the best points of his book that helped me personally.